Focus, Focus, Focus!

I’ve listened to songs that confuse or irritate me. Some sounded like they were going in an interesting direction, and then just crashed. A few made me want to drop my monitors off a cliff.

The real gems though, are the complete package: They grab you, pull you in, and keep you riveted right to the end. The music, lyrics, and effects all combine beautifully to create a masterpiece.

Personal preference, as always, plays a significant role here. But one of the other critical differences between the former and the latter, is how well the different parts focused on a specific idea, or emotion.

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Prioritizing Your Goals is NOT Selfish

Remember to include yourself amongst the people you love.
- Anonymous

I was lucky.

Growing up, I had few friends, and the ones I had were kinda weird (like me). We were outcasts, so we had nothing to prove.

My parents too, had (relatively) few expectations on how I was “supposed” to live, the kinds of people I should spend time with, the type of job I should have, and so on.

In other words, I grew up relatively free from the obligations imposed on most people. In particular, I managed to – mostly – avoid that type of person who takes more than they give.

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